tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3097573368575371682.post1895592985030937265..comments2023-06-29T09:42:26.046-05:00Comments on Sentiments from an Enslaved Sissy: Disturbing the submissive balance of Giver vs. Receiverfur sissyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06773975470940525031noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3097573368575371682.post-90326746190254243372014-07-08T01:40:21.383-05:002014-07-08T01:40:21.383-05:00Thank you, Lady Grey.
I do agree with the value o...Thank you, Lady Grey.<br /><br />I do agree with the value of reminders, even if they are unpleasant. <br /><br />Take care.fur sissyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06773975470940525031noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3097573368575371682.post-22859817879247779312014-07-06T10:42:32.187-05:002014-07-06T10:42:32.187-05:00Yes, fur, that does clarify things, and I might ad...Yes, fur, that does clarify things, and I might add that personal experience enforces the correctness of the position you're taking. I don't often go to extremes in using various forms of corporal punishment with my husband, mainly because I no longer have to. An intelligent sub such as my husband invariably learns the lesson intended and is indeed psychologically carrying that lesson forward, thus avoiding the need for much replication of the punishment.<br /><br />However, and this is important, an occasional reminder has its value as well, as I'm sure you'd agree. Said reminder has a way of assuring a sub that his Dom is not getting complacent, nor should he.<br /><br />I'd hope that you're getting a bit of this reinforcement yourself:) Be well.<br />Lady Greyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10795130564028111447noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3097573368575371682.post-11415616930800463572014-07-03T17:58:05.384-05:002014-07-03T17:58:05.384-05:00Thank you for the comments, Lady Grey. I will do ...Thank you for the comments, Lady Grey. I will do my best to elaborate.<br /><br />I do think the fear must be based upon physical experience but to have it exist in such a way that it becomes psychological. Physical fear is very rational, but in these cases I do not believe the sub is thinking/behaving rationally.<br /><br />To reach the level of psychological deterrent I believe a Domme would have to push their sub through an extreme level of punishment... something a bit over the top that noticeably exceeds the sub's thresholds for punishment. The punishment could take on varying forms but physical punishment is probably the easiest to accomplish this with. Something along the lines of a very savage, severe beating associated with this type of offense could both establish an understanding of just how far the Domme can go and create a very deep, negative association with said behavior.<br /><br />Basically, a punishment so bad that a sub will NEVER forget it and make them react on instinct (rather than rational fear).<br /><br />I hope this helps. fur sissyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06773975470940525031noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3097573368575371682.post-73990969490854616132014-07-02T12:43:40.540-05:002014-07-02T12:43:40.540-05:00You seem to be favoring psychological fear over ph...You seem to be favoring psychological fear over physical fear, and I'm unclear as to just what form that psychological fear takes - at least in your mind. It would have to be rather extreme, I'd guess, in order to offset what you describe as an unwanted reaction on your part that is very deeply rooted in your psyche. Could you be more explicit? What are you thinking about that would be so powerful a psychological deterrent?<br />Lady Greyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10795130564028111447noreply@blogger.com