tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3097573368575371682.post2031735675077399818..comments2023-06-29T09:42:26.046-05:00Comments on Sentiments from an Enslaved Sissy: Expanding on Humiliationfur sissyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06773975470940525031noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3097573368575371682.post-12834934663639594182017-03-01T16:36:00.528-06:002017-03-01T16:36:00.528-06:00Thank you, Miss Lily. I always love to hear from ...Thank you, Miss Lily. I always love to hear from you.fur sissyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06773975470940525031noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3097573368575371682.post-75799933277944285582017-03-01T16:32:35.296-06:002017-03-01T16:32:35.296-06:00Miss Lily was here. Enjoyed the read. Thank you fo...Miss Lily was here. Enjoyed the read. Thank you for writing fur.Miss Lilyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05516012472453053586noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3097573368575371682.post-37341199293647474872017-02-08T13:01:19.374-06:002017-02-08T13:01:19.374-06:00Thank you, Lady Grey.
I probably should have put ...Thank you, Lady Grey.<br /><br />I probably should have put a precursor that this is mostly applicable to humiliation fetishists/enthusiasts.<br /><br />I do believe that the kink-aware crowd can keep things fairly humiliating if they choose to play off of it. Teasing and comments go a long ways to mess with a sub's head.<br /><br />Exposure to outsiders always runs a large risk and can be unwelcome. The shocked reaction can also be negative in a bad way. A sub can take a lot of teasing but a reaction of disgust hits a lot harder and can move into rejection territory.<br /><br />I have to believe that Karl likely has greater worries in many cases. At times the self-consciousness probably does compound things but I have never gotten the impression that humiliation was a focal point in your lifestyle. I would have to believe that Patsy seems like the most likely candidate to play along on that front.<br />fur sissyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06773975470940525031noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3097573368575371682.post-47642536542671239582017-02-08T09:04:16.352-06:002017-02-08T09:04:16.352-06:00This entire "humiliation" thing assumes ...This entire "humiliation" thing assumes that one is exposing one's sub to people unfamiliar with the particular dynamic that is taking place. Preferably so-called vanilla people who would be shocked to hear about the pink panties and thus would cause the sub to be humiliated as his proclivities (even forced proclivities - actually ESPECIALLY forced proclivities) are revealed.<br /><br />If, however, if privacy is vital to the particular D/s dynamic, the whole question of potential humiliation becomes moot. It's simply not going to happen if privacy is paramount. That makes humiliation much more tricky to achieve, and in my case (and my sub husband's) at least, it doesn't play a big part in our lives.<br /><br />If a Femdom only reveals the pink panty thing to fellow Femdoms, humiliation isn't really a factor, is it? The lack of shock value tends to equal "no humiliation" if the sub is exposed only to ladies who accept the entire D/s dynamic.<br /><br />I force my husband to wear ladies panties all the time. Is that to humiliate him? No, it's to remind him constantly just who has the power in our relationship. If I forced him to drop his pants and reveal himself to his fellow workers, now that would be humiliation. The fact that we regard our privacy as primary simply prevents that from happening. Thus, my husband is controlled constantly in what you refer to as a "state of self-consciousness", but never humiliated or shamed in front of those who would be shocked at our way of life. I guess he gets off easy, huh?Lady Greyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10795130564028111447noreply@blogger.com