tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3097573368575371682.post4786703520928038868..comments2023-06-29T09:42:26.046-05:00Comments on Sentiments from an Enslaved Sissy: Keeping up the momentumfur sissyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06773975470940525031noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3097573368575371682.post-81704032811027323242010-09-23T15:15:59.841-05:002010-09-23T15:15:59.841-05:00Thank you, Lady Grey. The post you mentioned was ...Thank you, Lady Grey. The post you mentioned was what I had in mind but I couldn't remember exactly where our dialogue took place.<br /><br />This situation is one I am in right now and it's very difficult for me to communicate about it with her since she tends to take it personally and have her feelings hurt if I approach her and let her know that I need her to be dominant.<br /><br />Sometimes it works out (usually when I am extremely stressed out) but other times it fails miserably and leads to a fight (usually when she is extremely stressed out). I guess this is just how I feel about things right now and don't see us having time for quality time in the near future and it's a bit frustrating.fur sissyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06773975470940525031noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3097573368575371682.post-59455850151967210292010-09-23T14:33:54.150-05:002010-09-23T14:33:54.150-05:00You and I have discussed the question of responsib...You and I have discussed the question of responsibility at length on my blog entry "Rules, Responsibility and the Kink" so I won't bother to rehash all we talked about. I'll just chime in and say that I completely agree with you that the bulk of the responsibility for keeping the D/s vibrant and healthy is on the shoulders of the Dom.<br /><br />I get very aggravated when I hear of a Dom who is ignoring this responsibility and letting the relationship flounder. A sub NEEDS a Dom to take charge in all things, and without this, the very essence of the coupling becomes senseless. By definition, a Dom must dominate - or else why bother?<br /><br />As you say, a sub has responsibilities as well, not only in letting his Dom know how desirable she is, and how much he relishes the power she exhibits, but in communicating when there is a problem. It takes two to tango, as the saying goes, even (especially, actually) in a D/s relationship.Lady Greyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10795130564028111447noreply@blogger.com