tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3097573368575371682.post7779652644576120568..comments2023-06-29T09:42:26.046-05:00Comments on Sentiments from an Enslaved Sissy: Nature vs. Nurture January 2017fur sissyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06773975470940525031noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3097573368575371682.post-56868265006762155562017-01-21T09:44:05.372-06:002017-01-21T09:44:05.372-06:00Thank you, Lady Grey.
I have hoped for many years...Thank you, Lady Grey.<br /><br />I have hoped for many years that they would find genes responsible for most "alternate lifestyle" behaviors. Homosexuality, Dominance, submission, masochism, etc. <br /><br />If this happened I have to believe that the world itself would become more tolerant (even if this was a slow process). As of now, I believe the bulk of intolerance is rooted in people looking at it as a conscious decision rather than an undeniable need.<br /><br />I have known many people of many types and I do believe the majority do lean towards nature. I have known enough people to have significant traumatic experiences at pivotal ages that seem to have shifted the currents of their lives dramatically.<br /><br />But then again, I also know many that have seemingly gone in the other direction from similar traumas and a case could be made for the coping mechanisms used are indicative of nature. e.g. some people cope with abuse by becoming submissive while others cope with abuse by becoming abusers. <br /><br />The nudge definitely has its place in most of the people I have ever met that have preferences that fall outside the societal establishment.fur sissyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06773975470940525031noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3097573368575371682.post-28503801275887765112017-01-21T08:32:27.047-06:002017-01-21T08:32:27.047-06:00I've never believed that anyone who turns out ...I've never believed that anyone who turns out to be gay, or bi, or transgender, or even dominant or submissive, etc., has been forced or manipulated into that situation. I suppose that makes me much more of a "nature" advocate. I accept that situations arise that help nudge a person in a certain direction, but the ultimate realization of a particular end product is something that has to have been there all along. <br /><br />That said, I can also see that the ultimate "coming out" in these situations is often not possible without the aforementioned nudge. My husband Karl had submissive leanings and fantasies for years that weren't brought to fruition until I came along. So, in a sense that's a form of nurturing, but it wouldn't have happened if nature hadn't been waiting in the wings. Thus, a little bit of nature and nurture was involved, and I think the nature part is the more significant in Karl's case and many others, and forms the basis for the ultimate "transition".Lady Greyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10795130564028111447noreply@blogger.com