tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3097573368575371682.post7940742921765663375..comments2023-06-29T09:42:26.046-05:00Comments on Sentiments from an Enslaved Sissy: Femdom Philosophies: The One Line Phrasefur sissyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06773975470940525031noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3097573368575371682.post-67315235900442347022011-01-15T22:37:01.458-06:002011-01-15T22:37:01.458-06:00Deborah,
I don't consider any one-liners to r...Deborah,<br /><br />I don't consider any one-liners to really hold tons of water on their own, nor do I ever think there's one "correct" way to have a D/s relationship (the way I stratify various types of Dommess and subs should probably testify to that). <br /><br />I just find there are some that can make a sub's head spin (in a good way) from time to time when it comes to fantasizing or approaching Dommes they would really like to serve or wish to avoid. e.g. someone who hates chastity might avoid a woman that uses the chastity line but someone who lives chastity might throw himself at her full on.fur sissyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06773975470940525031noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3097573368575371682.post-34134309915068059252011-01-15T19:36:50.308-06:002011-01-15T19:36:50.308-06:00Oh, well, perhaps I DO have 'one line phrase&#...Oh, well, perhaps I DO have 'one line phrase': <br /><br />> Don't fuck with other persons' lifes. <<br /><br />But this applies not only to bdsm, but also to any other kind of human relationships and contacts. I believe that's not the worst approach. :)<br /><br /><br />~ D ~Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3097573368575371682.post-59192952177765168822011-01-15T19:33:19.308-06:002011-01-15T19:33:19.308-06:00I am not a big fan of these 'one line phrases ...I am not a big fan of these 'one line phrases of dom-philosophy', as they are often too general and too narrow-minded. They often sound as if a domme would try to create universal rules of D/s... 'This phrase is correct and should be standard for all people in this lifestyle.'<br /><br />For example:<br /><br />- 'All boys should be kept in chastity.'<br />Oh, and everyone who is NOT keeping a man in chastity is doing it wrong? What if neither domme nor sub have a great chastity-fetish? What's the use of this philosophy if the persons involved prefer other activities and a different approach?<br /><br />- 'Only dominants should be allowed to wear black.'<br />Says who? The law? The Holy Bible? The 100 eternal rules of BDSM? *lol* Another needless principle. It's acually very easy: If a domme wants to allow her sub to wear black, she should. If a sub enjoys to wear black, he should (if this is not an infraction on his dominant's order).<br /><br />Etc.<br /><br />There are unfortunately too many fundamentalistic 'I know the way of true BDSM'-dommes and too many fundamentalistic 'I am holier than you'-subs who love to force their own philosophy on other people, even if their 'victims' are happier with their own style. I like to read about different experiences, but I hate it if someone tries to teach me what is best for me or my submissives in such an absolute and dogmatic way.<br />So I prefer to ignore these 'one line phrases'. Wants, needs, phantasies, lifestyles are too complex and too different to put them into such phrases.<br /><br />~ Deborah ~Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com