tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3097573368575371682.post8684623424463836591..comments2023-06-29T09:42:26.046-05:00Comments on Sentiments from an Enslaved Sissy: Fantasy debate: the Cruel Sadist vs. Demanding and Indifferentfur sissyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06773975470940525031noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3097573368575371682.post-43595189572420771972015-09-11T17:21:10.660-05:002015-09-11T17:21:10.660-05:00Thank you, Lady Grey. I do enjoy your posts (and ...Thank you, Lady Grey. I do enjoy your posts (and comments) very much. I hope to catch up on your blog and make some replies as I can find the time (I like to set aside at least an hour or two to process and reflect). I do agree with your assessment of all Dominants being at least "part sadist." I was working on a post (that I scrapped) where I was searching for the dividing line... that is, where "part sadist" becomes "full-on sadist" and I think I have found it, I just have to find the words to convey it. e.g. there are people that get a charge out of playfully teasing someone and making them feel self-conscious/embarrassed/etc. for fun vs. someone who is driven to inflict those feelings from a deeper emotional or sexual base. I have often used phrases like cruel streak, wicked streak, etc. to describe someone who resembles the former but is definitely not of the latter category. It would be interesting to see if the two are part of an evolutionary link where the first type become the second type under the right nurturing. I am planning to revisit this in a post.<br /><br />I hope you are doing well. Take care.fur sissyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06773975470940525031noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3097573368575371682.post-45700216836797911412015-09-11T09:59:18.258-05:002015-09-11T09:59:18.258-05:00Nice to have you back, Fur. Maybe it will stimula...Nice to have you back, Fur. Maybe it will stimulate a desire in me to actually write another blog entry of my own. It's been quite quite awhile since I've posted.<br /><br />I enjoyed your comparison/contrast section dealing with the difference between sadists and non sadists. As a proud, unapologetic sadist, I would have to say that virtually ANY so-called non sadist operating as a Dominant would have to be counted as at least a partial sadist, whether they like the title or not. Punishing her sub - to whatever end - involves sadism. The same goes for denying her sub's sexual needs and/or dressing him in an inarguably female costume to humiliate him. It's all sadism, and it's just a matter of degree.<br /><br />As for your last paragraph, I had to chuckle a bit as I reflected on my own situation. As a "lowly" wife totally dominating her CEO husband, it seems I've turned the stereotype around. Leave it to a sadist to mess up the formula!<br /><br />Take care.Lady Greyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10795130564028111447noreply@blogger.com