tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3097573368575371682.post8813332269287221856..comments2023-06-29T09:42:26.046-05:00Comments on Sentiments from an Enslaved Sissy: Breaking Limitsfur sissyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06773975470940525031noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3097573368575371682.post-15151826906534477642016-05-17T08:44:20.679-05:002016-05-17T08:44:20.679-05:00Thank you for the comments, Lady Grey. As for the...Thank you for the comments, Lady Grey. As for the "in BDSM" part, I had meant to imply the protocols/definitions that are often practiced in old guard BDSM communities and not a general statement by any means (I added "community" to the original post to try and make this distinction. When K originally educated me on things that was a big distinction she made, that in the community, "slaves" could be sold, weren't allowed to refuse abuse, etc. The view I was taught was that someone classified as a slave may internally have limits, they just had no trust-based protection that those limits would be respected.<br /><br />I was never certain of K's "master plan," but I do believe she had one and that what happened was part of a process that was never finished. I'm not sure if these events hurt me more than harmed me. If anything I'm not sure I'm comfortable with the fact that feeling completely violated turns me on, but these events also put me into a very deep level of space that I do find enjoyable. I will be thinking about this over the next couple of days.fur sissyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06773975470940525031noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3097573368575371682.post-89630040097500354732016-05-17T08:07:24.008-05:002016-05-17T08:07:24.008-05:00I've read over this entry several times, as it...I've read over this entry several times, as it is quite revealing on the subject of limits from the sub's point of view. I can't agree with the contention (i.e "In BDSM, the difference between sub and slave is often measured by the fact that slaves are not permitted any limits, and to enter that role implies this") that entering the "slave" mode implies that hard limits no longer exist. That's not the case in my relationship with my husband when we go into the s/M scenario at various intervals.<br /><br />I suppose if the Master's desire is to "break" the slave, forcing a hard limit to dissolve, and thereby wrecking the psyche of the slave as well as any chance of resisting, it would be worthwhile to go to such extremes. Such a thing is not what I'm after, so I wouldn't consider going that far, nor do I consider it necessary for achieving surrender of the slave's will and entry into "slave space". K obviously didn't feel that way, and I wonder - in the end - if it didn't cause some of your future breakdowns and depressions, at least in part. Lady Greyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10795130564028111447noreply@blogger.com