Tuesday, December 19, 2017

It Ends

Originally Posted:  12/18/17

T and I called off our relationship yesterday.   The split was amicable and a couple of years in the making.  We are now roommates.  There is no rush for either of us to move out as both of us find the arrangement to be mutually beneficial.  She lost her sex drive a few years ago and over the past year or two she has lost any romantic feelings for me whatsoever.

I am feeling a bit numb.  There is a twinge of hurt festering inside.  There is also some relief.  I had feared this would blow up in a bad way where I would have to be afraid of what she might do and the stress that would follow.  When our lease expires we may still live together in a new place but we would have separate rooms.  There are 5-6 months before any decisions have to be made on that front.

I am now, for the first time in 12+ years, single.


  1. Relationship transitions are always difficult. I'm glad things are amicable between you. Best wishes for whatever - or, perhaps, WHOever - is next.

  2. I'm sure that your head is reeling, fur. Going through a a breakup is always depressing at some level, but I think we can both agree that this was somewhat overdue, and fairly inevitable based on your writings in the last few years. Hopefully, this will usher in a new era in your submissive lifestyle, and in the end I have no doubt that you will find the dominant lady who is finally "just right" for you. As always, my thoughts are with you and my fingers will remain crossed until that delightful day arrives when you can look up (or possibly down:)) and say "Now why did we wait so long to end a dead end relationship". Be strong and be well!

    1. Thank you, Lady Grey, it is good to hear from you.
      I do feel a bit unsettled, but also relieved that this happened cleanly and without a load of damage and baggage. I had forseen this happening at some point in a much uglier way.

      I do hope that I am able to find that special person.

      Take care.