I am in the midst of some busy things in my personal life so my access to the internet will be sporadic at best over the next 7-10 days. Hopefully everything should smooth out soon.
I was reading the blog at: http://reluctantmistress.blogspot.com/2010/08/forced-feminisation.html
and something in the comments got me thinking about this topic again.
How does a D/s relationship make feminization feel forced when it's obviously a source of pleasure for the sub. I have no desire to crossdress but forced feminization has become a big part of my submissive life. There always seems to be a fine line between a sub sharing his feelings about what aspects turn him on and attempts at topping from the bottom.
What I was thinking about are ways to drive home the forced aspect of feminization and what sort of things are capable of doing that. Each type of activity seems to stem from a particular root aspect that is usually more D/s than sissy fantasy.
My list so far:
1. Remove choice.
-Lock away (or throw away) his male garments in a "wear this or go naked" sense.
-Choose what he has to wear.
-Threaten compliance with punishment.
-Do it whenever, even (or especially) when he isn't in the mood.
2. Establish feelings of inescapability.
-Lock the feminine items on.
3. Create a negative association.
-Establish a link between dressing and chastity and/or orgasm denial.
-Place him in uncomfortable situations.
-Work him hard with unrealistic expectations when he is dressed.
-Make sure he is dressed during any and all punishments.
4. Establish permanence. (This is a bit extreme but also removes the fantasy connotations)
-Breast implants or cosmetic surgery.
-Feminine tattoos and/or tattooed make-up/eyebrows.
#4 most likely goes beyond the realm of what most couples will ever wish to experience but I figured I would list them anyways since they fit in with the overall theme.
Any thoughts or additions?