Last night I started thinking about the path that my life has followed through D/s and it got me wondering whether or not it would have progressed in a similar way if my early Femdom experiences had been less intense and/or of a shorter duration.
I have known enough Femdom couples to where I think that my beliefs on the progressive escalation of D/s intensity over time are probably true. I also know that there are tendencies for one or both parties to hit plateaus that may provide plenty of happiness for long periods of time.
I guess I'm just curious if it would have delayed my desires for ultra-high intensity or if it would have played out nearly the same. I know it's impossible to tell for sure but that doesn't mean I can't dabble in the hypotheticals.
Possibly you might have discovered a happy space based on your deep submission, rather than become hooked on the intense kick of intense humiliation?
ReplyDeleteI'm not sure, but that is a possibility.
ReplyDeleteThere's also the chance i would have ended up as is, it may have just taken longer.