Saturday, December 10, 2011
Humiliation Boutique - Job Interview
This one isn't one of my finer works... but it sort of continues along with the previous one.
Seated Striking with a short tool
This is the basic mechanics of an over the knee spanking.
Based upon what tool you intend to hit with and how much physical damage you wish to inflict, it may change the way you sit, your grip, and where you should place the target (e.g. the sub's ass).
For a heavier-weight tool such as a wooden paddle or large hair brush, you will probably use a standard grip in most situations. For deeper bruising you are best off using a legs forward position.
For a lighter-weight tool such as a ruler, slapper, wooden spoon, slipper, or strap, you can use an overhand grip if you want to deliver quick, repeated blows with a satisfying smack on impact. You can use a standard grip if you want to hit deep and cause bruising. Use legs back for the quick stinging blow and legs forward for a deeper penetrating blow.
*A quick note: focusing on pulling the bottom of the handle will make the striking surface of the tool move faster than if you try to move the striking surface.
As you can see the mechanics are similar for both strikes with a couple of small differences. With a stinging blow the focus should be on quickness instead of power (the power is generated by physics rather than muscle strength) and you stop upon impact rather than continuing to "pull through" the hit.
One other difference of note is that you may have better luck shifting the target position depending upon what style of hit you are attempting.
For penetrating blows the target should be placed (on your lap) along the right side of your body (assuming you are right handed, switch to the left side for lefties).
For stinging blows performed with the overhand grip (and sometimes penetrating blows with the overhand grip), you may find you can hit harder if the target is placed (on your lap) at the center of your body.
One way to practice these techniques is to take something like a wooden spoon and try to perform the motions while standing. You are better off staying as relaxed as possible until you near the hit point. You can adjust things as necessary. Your goal with the spoon is to make the "swish" of the air be as high pitched as possible, since that means the head of the spoon is moving faster. If it makes something like a whistling sound, you are generating tremendous speed.
Based upon what tool you intend to hit with and how much physical damage you wish to inflict, it may change the way you sit, your grip, and where you should place the target (e.g. the sub's ass).
For a heavier-weight tool such as a wooden paddle or large hair brush, you will probably use a standard grip in most situations. For deeper bruising you are best off using a legs forward position.
For a lighter-weight tool such as a ruler, slapper, wooden spoon, slipper, or strap, you can use an overhand grip if you want to deliver quick, repeated blows with a satisfying smack on impact. You can use a standard grip if you want to hit deep and cause bruising. Use legs back for the quick stinging blow and legs forward for a deeper penetrating blow.
*A quick note: focusing on pulling the bottom of the handle will make the striking surface of the tool move faster than if you try to move the striking surface.
As you can see the mechanics are similar for both strikes with a couple of small differences. With a stinging blow the focus should be on quickness instead of power (the power is generated by physics rather than muscle strength) and you stop upon impact rather than continuing to "pull through" the hit.
One other difference of note is that you may have better luck shifting the target position depending upon what style of hit you are attempting.
For penetrating blows the target should be placed (on your lap) along the right side of your body (assuming you are right handed, switch to the left side for lefties).
For stinging blows performed with the overhand grip (and sometimes penetrating blows with the overhand grip), you may find you can hit harder if the target is placed (on your lap) at the center of your body.
One way to practice these techniques is to take something like a wooden spoon and try to perform the motions while standing. You are better off staying as relaxed as possible until you near the hit point. You can adjust things as necessary. Your goal with the spoon is to make the "swish" of the air be as high pitched as possible, since that means the head of the spoon is moving faster. If it makes something like a whistling sound, you are generating tremendous speed.
Biomechanics - Hitting with Power
There are two factors that determine hitting with power. The first is velocity (the speed the striking surface reaches before impact). The second is force (how much power is delivered upon impact).
Physics basics 1:
Speed = Velocity = change in distance / change in time.
Acceleration = change in velocity / change in time.
Force = mass x acceleration.
What this means for punishment tools:
A heavier tool can deliver more potential force if it can reach the same or greater speed than a lighter tool. However, generating equal or greater speed with a heavier tool is generally only possible with downward strikes.
With a horizontal or upward motion there will be a limit to how heavy a tool can be before you start to lose a significant amount of speed and control.
To the best of my knowledge there isn’t a lot of standard terminology used to describe methods for corporal punishment so I am creating my own.
Grip and wrist orientation:
Overhand Grip – This is the type of grip orientation you would use to hit a tennis racket or slap someone (backhand or forehand). With this type of grip the wrist moves parallel to the striking surface and is the final determining factor in power. This grip’s strength is dominated by the thumb and index finger.
Standard Grip – This is the type of grip orientation you would use to split firewood with an axe, pounding a hammer, or delivering a karate chop. While the wrist has some motion, this grip derives most of its power from the elbow. This grip’s strength utilizes all of the fingers in the hand.
What this means for punishment tools:
The overhand grip is better suited for shorter tools (under ~12” in length for rigid tools and under ~36” for whips/floggers) and will work for both rigid and flexible items. The thicker the handle gets, the less force this grip can deliver.
The standard grip is better suited for longer tools as well as heavier tools. It is very strong with long rigid items or longer whips with a bit of girth/weight to them. This grip orientation loses less power with increased handle thickness.
Two types of strikes:
-A Stinging blow. This is the boxing equivalent to a jab. Quick and compact, it will smack hard on the surface with a lot of sting upon impact. This is best suited for lighter weight tools that will reach a high velocity and the focus force is delivered to the point of impact. A quick slap with a crop or leather paddle that reddens the ass comes to mind here.
-A Penetrating blow. This is the boxing equivalent to a right cross (think knockout blow). Deep and painful, it will drive hard into the point of impact with the intent to bruise and/or split the skin. This can be performed with any type of item but the heavier the item, the deeper it will hurt as it delivers force beyond the point of impact and into the underlying tissue.
Most tools will use an overhand grip to perform a stinging blow and a standard grip to deliver a penetrating blow.
Physics basics 1:
Speed = Velocity = change in distance / change in time.
Acceleration = change in velocity / change in time.
Force = mass x acceleration.
What this means for punishment tools:
A heavier tool can deliver more potential force if it can reach the same or greater speed than a lighter tool. However, generating equal or greater speed with a heavier tool is generally only possible with downward strikes.
With a horizontal or upward motion there will be a limit to how heavy a tool can be before you start to lose a significant amount of speed and control.
To the best of my knowledge there isn’t a lot of standard terminology used to describe methods for corporal punishment so I am creating my own.
Grip and wrist orientation:
Overhand Grip – This is the type of grip orientation you would use to hit a tennis racket or slap someone (backhand or forehand). With this type of grip the wrist moves parallel to the striking surface and is the final determining factor in power. This grip’s strength is dominated by the thumb and index finger.
Standard Grip – This is the type of grip orientation you would use to split firewood with an axe, pounding a hammer, or delivering a karate chop. While the wrist has some motion, this grip derives most of its power from the elbow. This grip’s strength utilizes all of the fingers in the hand.
What this means for punishment tools:
The overhand grip is better suited for shorter tools (under ~12” in length for rigid tools and under ~36” for whips/floggers) and will work for both rigid and flexible items. The thicker the handle gets, the less force this grip can deliver.
The standard grip is better suited for longer tools as well as heavier tools. It is very strong with long rigid items or longer whips with a bit of girth/weight to them. This grip orientation loses less power with increased handle thickness.
Two types of strikes:
-A Stinging blow. This is the boxing equivalent to a jab. Quick and compact, it will smack hard on the surface with a lot of sting upon impact. This is best suited for lighter weight tools that will reach a high velocity and the focus force is delivered to the point of impact. A quick slap with a crop or leather paddle that reddens the ass comes to mind here.
-A Penetrating blow. This is the boxing equivalent to a right cross (think knockout blow). Deep and painful, it will drive hard into the point of impact with the intent to bruise and/or split the skin. This can be performed with any type of item but the heavier the item, the deeper it will hurt as it delivers force beyond the point of impact and into the underlying tissue.
Most tools will use an overhand grip to perform a stinging blow and a standard grip to deliver a penetrating blow.
Friday, December 9, 2011
Biomechanics - The Physics of Corporal Punishment
This is mainly for the Dommes that read here, but I was curious about something. I have a background in sports instruction/biomechanics and could diagram some of the techniques and physics for things like:
-How to deliver the hardest slap with a paddle/slapper/hairbrush with the least amount of effort.
-How to achieve the greatest velocity (or greatest destructive force) with a crop or cane.
-How to vary the motion in order to create a quick, biting sting vs. a deep, penetrating bruise.
Would there be any interest in this?
I know it might seem kind of wrong in some ways, learning flogging techniques from a male sub, but I figured since I have the knowledge I may as well offer to pass it on. It's so odd that the methods for hurting someone are the same methods used for hitting a ball, etc.
-How to deliver the hardest slap with a paddle/slapper/hairbrush with the least amount of effort.
-How to achieve the greatest velocity (or greatest destructive force) with a crop or cane.
-How to vary the motion in order to create a quick, biting sting vs. a deep, penetrating bruise.
Would there be any interest in this?
I know it might seem kind of wrong in some ways, learning flogging techniques from a male sub, but I figured since I have the knowledge I may as well offer to pass it on. It's so odd that the methods for hurting someone are the same methods used for hitting a ball, etc.
Humiliation Boutique - The next steps
I think with the next steps I'll do a mix of drawings followed by a "meeting" type drawing that sets up the next sets of themed drawings. I'm not really sure though, but that's what I'm thinking right now.
In all honesty I would love to turn this into a comic sort of a thing but I'm just not good enough with backgrounds to do that yet. I do have some characters in mind but I'm not all that confident that I can make them look similar in each drawing as well :P
I should add that I will probably be taking a small break from drawing on weeknights so I can catch back up on sleep. Also, feedback/comments are always welcome.
In all honesty I would love to turn this into a comic sort of a thing but I'm just not good enough with backgrounds to do that yet. I do have some characters in mind but I'm not all that confident that I can make them look similar in each drawing as well :P
I should add that I will probably be taking a small break from drawing on weeknights so I can catch back up on sleep. Also, feedback/comments are always welcome.
Thursday, December 8, 2011
Humiliation Boutique - Tenth Salesgirl (caption drawing)
This will be the last one of this series (following the sales meeting drawings that kicked this off). If I do more they will be of a (similar yet) different theme. (I suppose it would have been nice if I had posted this the first time).
Tuesday, December 6, 2011
Monday, December 5, 2011
Humiliation Boutique - First Salesgirl (caption drawing)
I was going to wait until I had a few done but I ran out of steam tonight and only finished one of them so far.
This is supposed to be a follow the drawing on the previous post named "meeting-jpg"
This is supposed to be a follow the drawing on the previous post named "meeting-jpg"
Sunday, December 4, 2011
A random observation
Based on a few of the Domme blogs I follow it's refreshing to know that the tendency to grow increasingly dominant over time seems to be just as noticeable as my own tendencies to grow increasingly submissive over time.
Go figure :)
Go figure :)
Sissy Fantasy: Humiliation Boutique
Lately I've been toying with the idea of doing some sort of on-going series/story/comic type of a thing but each time I tend to run into obstacles preventing me from doing so. Usually it's something along the lines of being too complicated to draw, requiring significant background art, etc.
After having some pretty good feedback on my shopping fantasies that I targeted at Kimberley and reading about some of what Marc is going through on From vanilla to kinky, I had a few ideas swirling around in my twisted mind.
What if there was a shop that specifically catered towards providing a playfully humiliating shopping experience for single sissies and subs with Dommes seeking to humiliate them publicly? Assuming said shop did in fact provide a relatively private safe haven for shoppers, they could probably get away with some rather enormous markups on products since they are technically selling a service that would be paid for with the items.
The scenario my mind has been wading through is of this type of shop with the clientele being primarily single sissies with a few Dommes with sissies in tow. The sales staff would be trained to tease, humiliate, and arouse the shoppers knowing full well that an aroused male has difficulty saying no.
This type of fantasy tends to turn me on in many ways. A specific scenario, a catch-phrase here and there, etc. are the staples of fantasy, but for some reason I get way more "into it" when trying to develop the "back end" of the business model. This is probably because I know some of it would be very effective and the thought of men (myself included) being taken advantage of always tends to get my head spinning.
Some examples:
What type of earnings potential and benefits would need to be present for a woman (dominant or not) to be willing to do this job? Assuming there would be a constant stream of customers what type of mark-up would be needed to make this happen? What kind of discount could be given to women shoppers yet still keep profitability intact?
Male workers could easily be lured in to provide free volunteer help. What kind of basic carrot (beyond the D/s environment) would be necessary to keep them coming back? How badly should their rights be abused in order to weed out the wannabes from the dedicated workers?
How would business decisions be made? What type of "market research" would be done? What would the store rules and policies be?
I know this is probably better reserved for fetish fiction but there's plenty of these scenarios I've wanted to draw. I may go further into this but I was curious if anyone had feedback first. I have done a couple of drawings (one of which is a "lazy artist" type with minor changes to an existing drawing) covering some behind the scenes stuff and if I keep going it will likely be a mix of interactive shopping experiences as well as following specific workers across a given day. I guess I'm also curious if people would be okay with single character drawings with a caption or if they need to have both characters present? It seems that some of the better pictures I use for models are better suited for the single-character type... which leads to the question if people prefer the situation or the women in my drawings. Feel free to chime in.
Women's orientation:
male orientation:
A sales staff meeting:
After having some pretty good feedback on my shopping fantasies that I targeted at Kimberley and reading about some of what Marc is going through on From vanilla to kinky, I had a few ideas swirling around in my twisted mind.
What if there was a shop that specifically catered towards providing a playfully humiliating shopping experience for single sissies and subs with Dommes seeking to humiliate them publicly? Assuming said shop did in fact provide a relatively private safe haven for shoppers, they could probably get away with some rather enormous markups on products since they are technically selling a service that would be paid for with the items.
The scenario my mind has been wading through is of this type of shop with the clientele being primarily single sissies with a few Dommes with sissies in tow. The sales staff would be trained to tease, humiliate, and arouse the shoppers knowing full well that an aroused male has difficulty saying no.
This type of fantasy tends to turn me on in many ways. A specific scenario, a catch-phrase here and there, etc. are the staples of fantasy, but for some reason I get way more "into it" when trying to develop the "back end" of the business model. This is probably because I know some of it would be very effective and the thought of men (myself included) being taken advantage of always tends to get my head spinning.
Some examples:
What type of earnings potential and benefits would need to be present for a woman (dominant or not) to be willing to do this job? Assuming there would be a constant stream of customers what type of mark-up would be needed to make this happen? What kind of discount could be given to women shoppers yet still keep profitability intact?
Male workers could easily be lured in to provide free volunteer help. What kind of basic carrot (beyond the D/s environment) would be necessary to keep them coming back? How badly should their rights be abused in order to weed out the wannabes from the dedicated workers?
How would business decisions be made? What type of "market research" would be done? What would the store rules and policies be?
I know this is probably better reserved for fetish fiction but there's plenty of these scenarios I've wanted to draw. I may go further into this but I was curious if anyone had feedback first. I have done a couple of drawings (one of which is a "lazy artist" type with minor changes to an existing drawing) covering some behind the scenes stuff and if I keep going it will likely be a mix of interactive shopping experiences as well as following specific workers across a given day. I guess I'm also curious if people would be okay with single character drawings with a caption or if they need to have both characters present? It seems that some of the better pictures I use for models are better suited for the single-character type... which leads to the question if people prefer the situation or the women in my drawings. Feel free to chime in.
Women's orientation:
male orientation:
A sales staff meeting:
New Drawing
I was originally going somewhere with this but it didn't work right for what I was trying to do...
so I figured I would just post it as is.
so I figured I would just post it as is.
Tuesday, November 29, 2011
Turning her Lesbian
I know I just made a post about the dangers of unrealistic fantasizing, but if you've read my blog for a long time you have probably seen that I do enjoy analyzing and trying to get to the root of particular fantasies and how/why they get to us.
I probably seem like a broken record with this... but this is further exploring the Lesbian Fantasy.... which I realize I have done several times already here:
http://furcissy.blogspot.com/2010/07/lesbian-fantasy.html
http://furcissy.blogspot.com/2011/01/revisiting-lesbian-fantasy.html
http://furcissy.blogspot.com/2011/03/cuckold-and-multi-sub-scenarios.html
I know there are a number of women out there who were the last woman their ex-boyfriend dated before coming out of the closet. I'm sure they are cases (although much less documented) of men being the last man their ex-girlfriend dated before becoming a Lesbian.
I'm not one to consider being a cuckold... with another man. Maybe it's my inherent distrust of men, but the thought of Mistress having sex with another man repulses me and it's something that in all likelihood would cause me to leave the relationship. I don't mind her playing with other subs, especially those that have a fetish for doing things that I'm not a fan of (e.g. cleaning, being beaten until the skin breaks and bleeds, or having their rectum ravaged by a giant strap on).
I have thought about what kind of psychological impact there would be if Mistress were to go full-on Lesbian (and not just bi) and cite a reason along the lines of me being inadequate as a lover or her being so fed up with men because of me that she went to play for the other team. Of course, in this romanticized fantasy version I would be kept on as a submissive but replaced as a lover.
I think I kind of view this as being beyond emasculation and is probably the death of the male ego.
I think the appeal on some level is that you are kept at arm's length from what you want but can never have again. The suffering and distress of that position is one that appeals greatly to my subspace. You can keep tacking on extras that push it deeper and deeper: chastity with no hope of release, no underlying love/care to serve as protection from real damage, forced fem as a caricature of femininity, having your income confiscated so that you have no independence or freedom, etc. The other big (fantasy) kicker is, of course, that her Lesbian lover will harbor disdain towards me and be as cruel, if not more cruel than Mistress.
Could I be happy in this situation? I guess it depends upon the other factors. Happy probably isn't the right word since I would surely be unhappy, but at the same time if the situation was as perfect as a fantasy it would probably be a tough situation to ever leave even if I was unhappy.
I am well-aware that this situation is just a fantasy. If a sub was that inferior as a lover and person, she would almost certainly give him the boot as soon as she found a new lover (nor would her lover likely be okay with her keeping a male ex around). I do find it particularly arousing though.
We did attempt to role-play this scenario in the past but had trouble finding a compatible femsub.
I probably seem like a broken record with this... but this is further exploring the Lesbian Fantasy.... which I realize I have done several times already here:
http://furcissy.blogspot.com/2010/07/lesbian-fantasy.html
http://furcissy.blogspot.com/2011/01/revisiting-lesbian-fantasy.html
http://furcissy.blogspot.com/2011/03/cuckold-and-multi-sub-scenarios.html
I know there are a number of women out there who were the last woman their ex-boyfriend dated before coming out of the closet. I'm sure they are cases (although much less documented) of men being the last man their ex-girlfriend dated before becoming a Lesbian.
I'm not one to consider being a cuckold... with another man. Maybe it's my inherent distrust of men, but the thought of Mistress having sex with another man repulses me and it's something that in all likelihood would cause me to leave the relationship. I don't mind her playing with other subs, especially those that have a fetish for doing things that I'm not a fan of (e.g. cleaning, being beaten until the skin breaks and bleeds, or having their rectum ravaged by a giant strap on).
I have thought about what kind of psychological impact there would be if Mistress were to go full-on Lesbian (and not just bi) and cite a reason along the lines of me being inadequate as a lover or her being so fed up with men because of me that she went to play for the other team. Of course, in this romanticized fantasy version I would be kept on as a submissive but replaced as a lover.
I think I kind of view this as being beyond emasculation and is probably the death of the male ego.
I think the appeal on some level is that you are kept at arm's length from what you want but can never have again. The suffering and distress of that position is one that appeals greatly to my subspace. You can keep tacking on extras that push it deeper and deeper: chastity with no hope of release, no underlying love/care to serve as protection from real damage, forced fem as a caricature of femininity, having your income confiscated so that you have no independence or freedom, etc. The other big (fantasy) kicker is, of course, that her Lesbian lover will harbor disdain towards me and be as cruel, if not more cruel than Mistress.
Could I be happy in this situation? I guess it depends upon the other factors. Happy probably isn't the right word since I would surely be unhappy, but at the same time if the situation was as perfect as a fantasy it would probably be a tough situation to ever leave even if I was unhappy.
I am well-aware that this situation is just a fantasy. If a sub was that inferior as a lover and person, she would almost certainly give him the boot as soon as she found a new lover (nor would her lover likely be okay with her keeping a male ex around). I do find it particularly arousing though.
We did attempt to role-play this scenario in the past but had trouble finding a compatible femsub.
Romanticizing Fetishes in Fantasy
While I don't get a lot of people contacting me, I find a large number of the ones that do are seeking a Domme and ask me about how to find one.
There are a couple of common characteristics I have found with these subs:
1. They have little to no real life D/s experience (that they haven't paid money for).
2. They have allowed their fantasies and fetishes to become over-developed before pursuing the lifestyle.
#1 is no big deal to me, everyone has to start somewhere, but #2 is crawling with problems.
As subs, especially before we have taken the plunge into the lifestyle there's usually a fairly long transitional process as we develop into submissives. It usually follows some sort of cycle of being very turned on by a non-traditional means and fantasizing about it, feeling fucked up about it and trying to make it go away, and after several iterations of the first two, finally coming to acceptance that this is something we don't want to live without.
If this process takes too long and is too intense (often assisted by fantasy-based fetish fiction) there's a tendency to develop a romanticized view of the D/s lifestyle and what their role will be within it, complete with theatrics and their perfect fantasy Domme. I generally try to steer them towards my tips for courting a Domme but this often falls on deaf ears (or blind eyes).
All subs would love to have this fantasy life. Those of us within the lifestyle have usually developed more reasonable expectations of it or managed to learn to crave what She enjoys. In this way subs that have a fetish for domestic servitude and performing unsupervised chores have a leg up on the competition (a whip-cracking task-Mistress standing over you while you clean the toilet isn't a reasonable expectation). Subs that have a thing for suffering on any level (mental, physical, emotional, sexual) are also pretty well-suited for the lifestyle although it can be difficult to find a demanding/cruel enough Domme to be a good fit.
Overall, there's a word for subs that have to have things the way they are in their fantasies: single. If it doesn't do anything for her, she probably won't do it. If you are out seeking a D/s relationship the best advice I can give is to try to keep your fantasies in check and make an effort to steer them towards things that make sense for her:
She will probably enjoy hurting you physically (without causing permanent damage).
She will probably want you to worship her body.
She will probably want you to perform domestic tasks.
She will probably want to do some tease & denial but she will probably expect your penis to perform for intercourse as well.
Assuming you are seeking a loving relationship, the above characteristics are probably a fairly safe assumption to make. For most things beyond that (chastity, feminization, pegging, torture, branding, etc.) it really becomes hit or miss and that is more of a good fit/bad fit situation.
It's not sexy, but fantasizing about yourself as someone worth talking to and being with is far more beneficial to your cause than fantasizing about being a naked slave sleeping outdoors in chains in a pile of your own feces unless you end up finding a Domme that wants to have an unemployed slave that doesn't really contribute to her personal life.
There are a couple of common characteristics I have found with these subs:
1. They have little to no real life D/s experience (that they haven't paid money for).
2. They have allowed their fantasies and fetishes to become over-developed before pursuing the lifestyle.
#1 is no big deal to me, everyone has to start somewhere, but #2 is crawling with problems.
As subs, especially before we have taken the plunge into the lifestyle there's usually a fairly long transitional process as we develop into submissives. It usually follows some sort of cycle of being very turned on by a non-traditional means and fantasizing about it, feeling fucked up about it and trying to make it go away, and after several iterations of the first two, finally coming to acceptance that this is something we don't want to live without.
If this process takes too long and is too intense (often assisted by fantasy-based fetish fiction) there's a tendency to develop a romanticized view of the D/s lifestyle and what their role will be within it, complete with theatrics and their perfect fantasy Domme. I generally try to steer them towards my tips for courting a Domme but this often falls on deaf ears (or blind eyes).
All subs would love to have this fantasy life. Those of us within the lifestyle have usually developed more reasonable expectations of it or managed to learn to crave what She enjoys. In this way subs that have a fetish for domestic servitude and performing unsupervised chores have a leg up on the competition (a whip-cracking task-Mistress standing over you while you clean the toilet isn't a reasonable expectation). Subs that have a thing for suffering on any level (mental, physical, emotional, sexual) are also pretty well-suited for the lifestyle although it can be difficult to find a demanding/cruel enough Domme to be a good fit.
Overall, there's a word for subs that have to have things the way they are in their fantasies: single. If it doesn't do anything for her, she probably won't do it. If you are out seeking a D/s relationship the best advice I can give is to try to keep your fantasies in check and make an effort to steer them towards things that make sense for her:
She will probably enjoy hurting you physically (without causing permanent damage).
She will probably want you to worship her body.
She will probably want you to perform domestic tasks.
She will probably want to do some tease & denial but she will probably expect your penis to perform for intercourse as well.
Assuming you are seeking a loving relationship, the above characteristics are probably a fairly safe assumption to make. For most things beyond that (chastity, feminization, pegging, torture, branding, etc.) it really becomes hit or miss and that is more of a good fit/bad fit situation.
It's not sexy, but fantasizing about yourself as someone worth talking to and being with is far more beneficial to your cause than fantasizing about being a naked slave sleeping outdoors in chains in a pile of your own feces unless you end up finding a Domme that wants to have an unemployed slave that doesn't really contribute to her personal life.
I love this coat...
... and I think it would look great on a Domme except I would make a couple of changes.
The number of straps/buckles is a bit over the top. I like how they taper the fit but dropping the number down to 1-3 of them would give more of an hourglass shape definition. Also, the top strap is a bit on the high side, where instead of pushing up the bust it seems to hold it down and steals from its femininity.
Overall very nice though.
The number of straps/buckles is a bit over the top. I like how they taper the fit but dropping the number down to 1-3 of them would give more of an hourglass shape definition. Also, the top strap is a bit on the high side, where instead of pushing up the bust it seems to hold it down and steals from its femininity.
Overall very nice though.
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