Author’s
Note: This bonus chapter is a mock Question and Answer session done
by Cassandra on her blog. It could take place at any time after Arc
1.
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Cassandra's Blog Bonus Chapter - Q & A: Chastity
Dear
Ms. C.
You
write about keeping your sub chaste on an almost permanent basis.
I’m new to the lifestyle and just don’t understand what the
appeal of chastity is for both Domme and sub. Would you please share
your thoughts on what you like about it so that I can try to
understand?
-ShyMiss
Thank you for the wonderful question, ShyMiss. I remember a time
when chastity didn’t make sense to me either. I enjoy sex and the
thought of removing that from the equation felt like I would be
losing an intimate act that brings me pleasure. While I took control
of my sub’s orgasms at the beginning of the relationship, it took
several years before I put him in a chastity device. This was done
at the behest of my former sub K, but somewhere down the road
something changed.
I realized that I love control more than I love intercourse. I love
that his pleasure and relief are kept under my lock and key. I love
that his sexual frustration makes him ache for me. I love how every
time he attempts an erection it reminds him of being owned. I love
the way that prolonged chastity has changed how he thinks and has
made him more submissive. His orgasms happen so infrequently that
his entire focus is on my pleasure.
I still get a bit giddy when I think about it. I completely own his
cock and I love it.
If I want to be completely honest, I have to say that there is a
darker side at work here as well. My sub enjoys erections (he is a
horny little slut). In our earlier days I used to love how perky it
was when I would keep him naked and send him scurrying around the
house, his penis bouncing around, all eager to please me. Now, I
listen to the voice of my inner-sadist a little more. He loves his
erections and that makes me want to take them away. Denying him such
a simple pleasure mmm… I love it. That metal belt around his waist
is truly unnecessary, I just can’t resist keeping him in it,
knowing that it takes away something that he enjoys. The longer it
stays this way the more I love it.
I still let him inside of me every so often, so it’s not like I do
without it completely. I just make sure to wait until my desire to
feel him outweighs my darker desires.
END
A rational explanation for what seems irrational on the surface. Assuming, of course, that the woman involved is a sadist:) Cass certainly fits the bill.
ReplyDeleteThank you, Lady Grey.
DeleteI do enjoy how topics such as these have so many different layers in how they affect both parties. I also enjoy the power of ideas, principles, and symbols, and Cass does too :)
Take care.