Author’s Note:
This bonus chapter is a mock Question and Answer session done by
Cassandra on her blog. It could take place at any time.
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Cassandra’s Blog
Bonus Chapter - Q & A: Privacy
Dear Ms. C.
I wish that I
could show my pet off to everyone but we keep our relationship
completely private to the outside world due to privacy concerns. How
were you overcome the privacy obstacle and make your relationship
known to your friends as well as bringing your sub out in public?
-Always Learning
Thank
you, A.L., that is a very good question.
When
it comes to “outing” yourself it really depends heavily upon how
strong of a relationship you have with your nearest and dearest
friends. You must trust them absolutely for this to feel safe. It’s
often easier to simply make some kinky friends where they have a
natural understanding of discretion. I consider myself a fairly good
judge of character and I generally keep myself quite guarded around
those who I don’t trust. The people in my life that are aware of
our lifestyle I have known for years and in many cases they are just
as kinky as we are.
Bringing
my sub out in public isn’t that big of a deal when our destination
is someplace kinky. In those environments people generally
understand that they are just as susceptible to being outed as you
are. For example, if someone announces that they saw you with your
sub at the Kitty Kat Club on fetish night, it means they too were at
the same club on fetish night.
In
all honesty, in today’s age of social media it is probably better
to be safe than sorry. If you have any doubts, it is very reasonable
to err on the side of caution. I will say that over the years I find
myself less and less concerned about people finding out that I am a
dominant woman. I wear the pants. I keep my submissive husband’s
balls in my purse. I don’t lift a finger around the house and he
waits on me like a Queen. If others found out about that I have a
feeling some of them would be quite jealous and in most cases, my sub
would be more distraught than I would be and that makes things a
little bit fun.
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