I'm feeling a lot more liberated in my writing since finishing up the reflections. Putting a name to Dommes and giving events an approximate time-frame has made it a lot easier to write about experiences and events without feeling the need to give every post the backstory leading up to it.
I am also finding myself writing a lot more graphically about sexual
activities than I ever have before. In the past I'd felt that including
a lot of that might dilute the focus of posts and I desperately wanted
to avoid being written off as "just some wanker sub," so I made a
conscious effort to avoid getting too explicit about things.
Now that I have broken that barrier, I'm feeling self-conscious about it
and I have a question to readers... Do you prefer this newer style or
my older "keep it in your imagination" method of dealing with sexual
I'm honestly curious. It's nice to be able to illustrate things with
actual life examples but I don't want generalized concepts being too
pigeon-holed into my specific set of fetishes and circumstances.
Any feedback would be appreciated.