Thursday, May 19, 2016

Graphic and Explicit Writing

I'm feeling a lot more liberated in my writing since finishing up the reflections.  Putting a name to Dommes and giving events an approximate time-frame has made it a lot easier to write about experiences and events without feeling the need to give every post the backstory leading up to it.

I am also finding myself writing a lot more graphically about sexual activities than I ever have before.  In the past I'd felt that including a lot of that might dilute the focus of posts and I desperately wanted to avoid being written off as "just some wanker sub," so I made a conscious effort to avoid getting too explicit about things.

Now that I have broken that barrier, I'm feeling self-conscious about it and I have a question to readers... Do you prefer this newer style or my older "keep it in your imagination" method of dealing with sexual events?

I'm honestly curious.  It's nice to be able to illustrate things with actual life examples but I don't want generalized concepts being too pigeon-holed into my specific set of fetishes and circumstances.

Any feedback would be appreciated.


  1. I vote for graphic. No reason to hold back, is there?

    1. Thank you, Lady Grey. I will continue on this new course. The only drawback is when I start feeling insecure about my fetishes being too weird, I'll read it back and be like, "wow, I'm really screwed up."